The Friendly Recluse
Medieval hermits were the agony aunts of their day.
Hermits, anchorites and anchoresses (men or women who lived enclosed in a small cell in a church) were holy figures with looser ties to ecclesiastical authorities and more autonomy than those who lived in formal religious communities. Hermits could move from place to place and were often given jobs overseeing bridges, gates and ferry terminals, but the Rule of St Benedict still held: their nature was one of isolation and ‘the solitary combat of the desert’. Guides written for them cautioned against any social contact. Aelred, Abbot of Rievaulx, wrote in his letter of advice to his anchoress sister in around 1160, De Institutione Inclusarum, that she should live ‘as a body dead to this world … buried in a cave with Christ’, consistent with the fact that the deathbed office of Extreme Unction was often performed at the ceremony of enclosure. While anchoresses’ cells would commonly have two small windows, one onto the church and one onto the street, the early 13th-century guide, the Ancrene Wisse, advised ‘love your windows as little as ever you can’, and 200 years later the Speculum Inclusorum (‘A Mirror for Recluses’) warned of the dangers of unbridled conversation with visitors. There was, however, a considerable gulf between theory and practice.
While the degree of social contact medieval recluses had differed, there is evidence to suggest that they were the agony aunts of their day, often flying in the face of the recommendations of religious authorities. That many of these supposed recluses were in fact living in the heart of Europe’s bustling medieval cities begins to give us a clue that they fulfilled a social function that the official guides barely hint at. The scholar of medieval devotional literature, Michelle M. Sauer, has said that while ‘The anchorite, in theory, was utterly alone in the cell … the reality of this lifestyle was quite different’ and ‘anchoresses were sought out by devout Christians and courted by towns, becoming a visible sign of holiness and protection’. No one typifies this role more than Julian of Norwich, who was anchoress of the church of Saint Julian the Hospitaller from around 1390 and author of the first book in English by a woman: The Shewings or Revelations of Divine Love.
The author of the first autobiography in English, Margery Kempe, travelled from her native King’s Lynn around 1414 to Norwich to see Julian, urgently seeking guidance on whether her mystical experiences were demonically inspired. Her visit came after years of being dismissed and humiliated by neighbours, priests and holy men. Her almost constant weeping and habit of criticising others’ moral laxity had won her few friends. Julian, who Margery says in her book ‘could give good advice’, was all reassurance. She told her:
‘Holy Writ says that the soul of a righteous man is the seat of God, and so I trust, sister, that you are’ and ‘do not fear the talk of the world, for the more contempt, shame and reproof that you have in this world, the more is your merit in the sight of God’. This must have been a considerable relief to a woman who was accused of heresy at a time when the Lollards were being burnt in England. Although she later reported that an anchoress in York refused to see her, having heard of her reputation, Margery adds that her confessor, a Dominican anchorite in King’s Lynn, was also a believer in the authenticity of her experiences. The anchorite offered the kind of no strings attached advice that the Saalfelden hermit will be looked to to dispense.
While the former post-holder at Saalfelden, an ex-psychotherapist, reported that some visitors were disappointed because he lacked a cowl or a beard, his medieval precursors served a need that continues today. Modern counselling is built on the psychologist Carl Rogers’ principle of ‘unconditional positive regard’ – complete acceptance of and support for the client. Julian of Norwich seems to have displayed just that in her meeting with Margery Kempe, which constituted a kind of talking therapy. That hermits are still needed today suggests a continuing search for people who can guide us impartially. Those divorced from our own experiences of life may be most able to throw those experiences into relief.
Sophia L. Deboick is a historian of religion and popular culture and a freelance writer.